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Today we are going to discuss about the forgiveness and love in our lives and will also discuss the reasons why forgiveness and love is important in our life. Forgiving people is good quality but practically it is difficult to forgive anyone.
The feeling that gives us the ultimate joy of life is love. Love is the dose for a happy and pleasant life. Likewise, forgiveness is very much associated with love. Forgiveness and love are eternal qualities. Both are very difficult to acquire for oneself.
But a healthy relationship can only occur if both are present. Without one, another doesn’t stay for longer, and life without it is very disturbing. The two go together and both of them collectively bring happiness to us.
People are working very hard to earn their livelihood and they spend more than half their lives in earning but they didn’t enjoy it. They earn to make a beautiful life but forget to live it, or they don’t get live it eventually.
How can they live and spend less doing undesirable things? Love is the solution.
The definition of love can be very diverse. We can’t define it, but its qualities are divine, eternal, blissful. Love is the feeling of great affection for something. It makes our life beautiful and makes us more enthusiastic, energetic, and courageous.
All the good qualities that bring us happiness, can get with a single quality. It is one in all pack of happiness. It is all around us, but it has been covered with lust which is the most dangerous enemy for a happy life.
Forgiveness is love and love is forgiveness both are collectively effective. One is not effective without the other. To get the benefits of such qualities, you have to acquire both. Learn to forgive people and love them unconditionally. If love is based on any condition, then it is not true love.
Love has been influenced by materialistic feelings, if there is some condition for love, then it is not a pure form of love. It can be changed at any time. Try to love people unconditionally, even if they do not love you.
Every relationship is beautiful if there is love between them. Relationships are strengthened by affection and love, no materialistic things can strengthen it. If any materialistic thing or lust is affecting it, it is not pure. If you love people, you can easily forgive them.
Life brings many ups and downs to test our ability, our mental strength, and our courage to face them. It seems very heartbreaking to us but later, we will be thankful for that. It helps us to become stronger and stronger.
Forgiveness is a healing process for your mental wounds; a healthy mind is the most important thing to live a healthy life. Always practice to keep your mind healthy and trained. Keep your mind engaged with the positivity around you.
Now, people will get confused about how they can exercise to keep their mind fit and healthy. The answer is very simple. Every action you perform is associated with your mind. So to make your actions good and right, keep your mind good and right by allowing only good and right things to enter your mind.
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The surroundings are full with lots of feelings and thoughts, good, bad, positive, negative, etc. So you have to allow your mind to take what is right and ignore the negatives. The best way to live a happy life is to think and feel positive, which brings positive outputs in your life.
The feeling of love and forgiveness is intrinsically ingrained in us by God in us, but we don’t allow them to function. Our material entanglements become so effective that they become a hindrance for the eternal qualities to act.
Conditioned life is given to us, to know and understand our real, eternal selves and to do the supreme work that we need to do or ought to do. There is no obstacle or hindrance that can stop you to achieve what you want badly in life.
We see the world based on two perceptions, one is what our eyes show us, that is the practical world; and the other is what our mind shows us, the imagined world, vision, etc. both are real. Because what we create in mind or think, is what drives us to do it in reality. We can’t intimate our imaginations, but we can certainly give our best to achieve what is possible.
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So here we are going to discuss the most genuine reasons why we should acquire the qualities of forgiveness and love in our life.
Reasons Why Forgiveness and Love Is Important In Our Life
These reasons will help you know how forgiveness and love can bring changes in your life. Let’s discuss them in details…
Life is changing every moment we pass. It brings many desirable and undesirable changes for us. We have to face all the changes. Some might bring happiness and some may hurt us. But when our mind is in our control, we will not be overly bothered by the changes.
We will help people cope with the unfavorable situation in their lives, and spread love; the ultimate joyous feeling of life. Peace can be attained when our mind is not disturbed by any materialistic nuisances around us. And every work will be done very efficiently with a peaceful mind.
When you forgive, your mind is freed because when you forgive it becomes free from all the feelings and emotions associated with the envious or hurt feeling.
A good personality
The definition of a good personality can be very diverse, but some of the principle traits which a positive personality can acquire may be of forgiving and moving head. A good person does not get envious of other’s criticism for him/ her. He just takes the positive part in their mind and do hard work to improve himself/herself.
People do exercises to become physically strong. But a strong physical outfit, without a strong mental attitude is of no use, you will become a slave of others who may be less fit than you but mentally stronger than you.
These days mental fitness is most important, practice strengthening mental muscles by acquiring divine qualities like forgiveness and love. We deal with this world mentally, more than physically.
Become more focused
When you put most of the negative emotions and feelings of hatred and distress out of your mind, you will be more focused in your work. Overthinking is the major problem, a large group is suffering from it.
People get stuck by the negative and miserable thoughts and emotions and just think more and more about that nonsense. Instead of thinking about these negative thoughts, practice controlling your mind.
Low distractions help in enhancing your productivity. A stable and peaceful mind helps to work more efficiently than a distracted mind. The more you focus on something, the better it brings the results.
And a mind can only become calm and stable when it has the least distractions. When our mind engages with the positive energies and work, we feel peace and stable and our mind works more efficiently.
A person has positive thinking, can see good thing in bad and a person with negative thinking can find the negative, even in the best. It is all a matter of mind, the way of our thinking, the world is same for everyone, some are living happily and others are depressed by the miseries in their lives.
Everyone has to face good and bad situations in life, the only difference lies in their mind power to deal with those situations and come out of it. The person who loves everyone and does not feel jealous of anyone is going to blessed with a happy life.
Hate, stress, criticism, depression, envious etc., are all the negative energies that harm our mind. And these energies are associated with the false illusion in our surroundings because when you look for the divine qualities, you will not find any negative energy there. A pure mind does not get entangled with the false materialistic illusions, and he continuously practice to achieve a higher level of consciousness.
People can show themselves beautiful from the outside and attrat people for some time, but this attraction only lasts until they find someone else more attractive than you. This is the materialistic attraction, of no use.
When your inner self is beautiful, you don’t have to show off from the outside. Such attraction doesn’t decrease over time rather it becomes stronger. Quality over quantity is always overtaken. A good personality can help in making quality connections, which motivates you to bring positive change around yourself.
We live with people of different mindsets and thought processes. We can’t change their opinion about ourselves. We have to adapt ourselves in such a way that we remain neutral even from their criticism and praise.
“The road to success and the road to failure are almost exactly the same.”
— Colin R. Davis
We should not feel hatred for them. Because to live a successful life you have to give and take support from others.
Life brings unlimited opportunities throughout our journey. When you learn to forgive and love people, it creates more doors for opportunities. People also forget about your mistakes and they start giving you chances to do better, they help you grow in your business, or job.
Love is a feeling that can give us enormous energy, which we are unknown to it. When someone does this search for us, we feel grateful for that person. Hatred never allows to you move forward in life unless you forgive and love them.
Forgiveness = ultimate test for love
Forgiveness is directly proportional to love in a relationship. The more you feel love for your partner; you need to be a more forgiving person. Also, it is easy to forgive your partner in relationships, because you love and care for that person.
Love + understanding + forgiveness = a strong relationship.
When you acquire these divine qualities of forgiveness and love, then all the other qualities associated with it also start attracting towards you. You become free from the temporary happiness of your surroundings. You will enjoy the eternal bliss of life; you will enjoy the real elixir of life. The joy that comes from within is the real source of pleasure.
Updation is the best way to lower our life problems and bring new opportunities in our life. Most people who are not successful in life give reasons which have happened in their past and they are still under stress.
If you do not want to become like that person, learn to overcome your worries by moving forward in life. Forgive the person who has wronged you and tormented you immensely; this is the only way to move forward and become a good person.
To achieve our goal
It is strange to connect this point with forgiveness and love, but it do affect a lot in achieving our goals. When we forgive those who do injustice to us, we move one step further towards our goals. If we do not forgive people for their mistakes and hate them, then it becomes a hindrance in the path of our goal. The feeling of hatred brings out many negative emotions associated with it and makes our mind unstable.
In order to reach our goal, it is necessary to have a feeling of love and forgiveness for others and also for ourselves. Never listen to the negative self-talk and focus on the positive.
If someone makes a mistake and seeking forgiveness from you, you should forgive them. It is not a bad choice to give him/ her another chance to rectify their mistake. If you forgive them; you actually help them in changing themselves.
Love is the most important component for every relationship. It brings happiness in our life and also in others. Giving chance by forgiving others creates a strong trust between you and the other person.
When you become mentally strong such that others’ criticism and opinions regarding you don’t affect you, your mind becomes more powerful to deal with such problems. Forgiveness is a courageous act, only a strong-minded person can acquire this. The courage to forgive by tolerating your loss and forget their mistakes needs enough courage.
If you can do this, then you are headed for higher progress in life. It enriches our mind to see the opportunities to overcome our loss and we start thinking to move forward in life. It helps to forget our loss and the feeling of hatred for the other person, a love starts dwelling in our heart.
Life is a continuous learning process, at every stage of life we learn something new to elevate ourselves. The attitude of learning should always be very polite and honest. You don’t have to fake yourself in front of others. Always be vigilant to learn new things around you.
If someone criticizes you or punishes you don’t feel hatred for themselves. A teacher in school punishes a student for the well-being of the student. So for a learning attitude, you have to stay a student forever in life.
Respect and Fame
A happy life is one where you have all the joy and respect for yourself. It is hard to gain respect in society. Respect comes as a result of your good deeds in past, present, or future. People love and respect those from whom they get inspiration in their life.
To gain respect in life, work to improve yourself. Always work hard to become better than your previous version. People like the latest version of everything. As it is saying goes: “Modern problems require modern solutions.”
A person feels happiness only when he feels internal peace in life. When our mind remains calm and doesn’t get hurt by the internal nuisances, it feels relaxed and happy. When you train your mind to forget and rectify your small mistakes in life, you become less anxious and more pleasant in life. Forgiveness and love have a similar effect in your life. It also attracts people because of your kind behaviour.
The person whom you forgive for their mistake will always bless you because you have given him a chance to become better and rectify their mistakes. Materialistic achievements can not help you in getting love and respect. It comes when your heart becomes pure and people feel good about you.
Cleanse your heart
As we clean our body by taking bath every day. Our heart also requires to be cleaned; surroundings are full of different people. By engaging with them our heart get affected, not majorly. But a minute change in our heart can bring the biggest change in our life.
A cleansing process of heart on the basis of good and bad emotions helps to ensure our success. Remove all the hatred from your heart and forgive them, start creating love and forgiveness in your life.
Practicing gratitude always helps you to know the real truth of life. Life becomes beautiful as you understand the real identity of yourself. Be grateful for your life and thankful to God.
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